Intimacy is not letting someone touch you. It is letting someone hold you when you are feeling low. Intimacy is not about letting someone undress you. It is about letting them undress the layers of your soul. Intimacy is not about sex. It is about letting someone in and sharing the thoughts and fears that keep you up at 3 am. Intimacy is not giving someone attention for a few minutes of pleasure. It is the person always being in the back of your mind no matter how distracted you are. The little things that we do are intimate. The things that bring the two souls together and not just the two bodies. That is intimacy.